I’ve been woefully unmotivated to write, recently. A host of reasons have contributed, not least of which the fact that I didn’t get to talk to my best friend for longer than I ever have since I was about 4 yrs old. Never underestimate the meaning of friendship.
I’ve been following the various race@school debacles happening at UCSD and now Missouri and I don’t really have much left to say. Other than the succint: “Post-racial, my eye!”
I actually wasn’t super-concerned about the thing at Missouri, even though they’re pursuing it as a hate crime. But I realized that may have just been due to my own lack of context. I spoke with a coworker about it and he was very upset. He told me that he remembered his mother picking cotton – as her job – when he was a kid. He also remembered her not being able to go to work one day because the Klan was burning the fields.
It’s kinda crazy to me that this stuff was happening in the last 50 yrs, but I suppose it should be, considering what’s happening today. We haven’t come as far as we like to think we have.
My work-spouse has been gone for all of one week and I barely know what to do with myself at work. Besides work.
Having a buddy sure makes a difference.
Speaking of buddies, I found out that a very old friend will be moving away. Far enough that it’s likely I won’t see him…much, if at all. We’ve been through all kinds of things together so even though we’re not as close now as we once were, it stings that he’s leaving. Some more unenlightened acquaintances liked to imagine that we would marry. This is highly unlikely, but I suppose I should never say never. One of us could have a stroke and become a different person. You never know.
Since the olympics have been on [and I’m not into the winter olympics], I’ve watched a bunch of movies. My recommendations?
Amreeka: a great story about a Palestinian woman and her son who move to America right around the time “shock’n’awe” starts. Realistic, but still fun, with a great heart.
Mame: Definitely read the book first [Auntie Mame by Patrick Dennis], and then enjoy Lucille Ball, Bea Arthur, and Robert Preston in a musical that may have you singing along the first time you watch. Lucille Ball *makes* this movie – and she’s at her most attractive here, I think.
Dakota Skye: indie rom-com ostensibly about a girl, but also a lot about the boys she likes. Still, how cool would it be to actually be able to always tell when someone’s lying to you? This one was right up my alley.
Phoebe in Wonderland: indie with some big names [Felicity Huffman, Bill Pullman, Elle Fanning (Dakota’s lil sis)] plots the story of a family with two precocious little girls. Phoebe is enamoured with the story of Alice in Wonderland, and as the movie unfolds you begin to understand her. Excellent!
I loved them all, and wouldn’t rank them…except for maybe Dakota Skye. That was more of a guilty pleasure for me, but I still really liked it. Everything else was fantastic!
I love how specific netflix is with me, now that they know me, my #1 recommended category is: Movies Featuring a Strong Female Lead. =)