The rain is pouring down outside, after about an hour of flashing and flickering lightning. What a great night to be inside. Except, I left work because the sun set – not because my work was done. And I left people there. So I feel bad. But I am still incredibly grateful for the Sabbath. If you don’t actually have a day of rest, I’m sorry. God knew what He was doing. We need that day. The whole day.
I’ve worked 12 hour days since Tuesday. Which I haven’t done since my last job. (’05) So I was definitely ready for the break. But since stuff still wasn’t going right when I left, I’m considering what I should do (if anything) for my boss and coworker that I left behind. Granted, my boss has been a hellion for the last two weeks, and she’s part of the reason that we were in this pickle, but she finally started acting human again this afternoon. A couple of days this week, I thought I just needed to quit. That might still be the case, but right now, I don’t feel the urgency that I did yesterday or the …five days before. Anyway, I have mixed feeling about leaving her there. More about leaving my coworker. Tough situation. But it really wasn’t necessary for me to stay, either.
But apparently, I’m not the only one who’s been going through. One of the links on my blogroll doesn’t work because of some crazy stuff [read: total concept/idea/content appropriation sans credit]. Then there was this whole other thing with some publishers and some WOC. woo. Why’s it gotta be feminists fighting?
My dad is a feminist. But he’s also still a good deal sexist. I deal. He’s my dad. He’s actually very progressive for his age and upbringing. He had good goals in raising my sister and I… I’m proud of him. But he still says some sexist stuff.
His response to my ranting about my boss and her bizarre behavior?
“It’s a shame that she’s acting this way, now people have a perfect example to point to and say -‘see? women don’t work as managers. They’re too emotional.’ “
Now, on the face of it, this sounds supportive. But when you know (like I do) that every time I bring up anything negative about my boss, this is what he says. If there’s a better marker for showing that his first thought tends toward the stereotype of female bosses being emotional, tell me about it. But, on the real, he’s a really awesome dad.
Anyway, this [the femblog blow-up] is one of those situations that I would describe to my dad, and he’d say something to the effect of
“It’s a shame they’re acting like that. All that fighting and arguing. Now people just have another example to point to and say ‘see? Women could never rule the world (much less the country) – they’re too emotional. You know – all those hormones.’ “
So what’s up ladies? Are we seriously going to give people the exact ammunition they’re (literally) preaching about? Not to say that those people who have been wronged should not be livid – they should. But the cattiness [for lack of a better term] that has come with the backlash against valid righteous indignation? Why? Are we not all grown-@ss women?
I am thoroughly and completely beat. My blinks keep getting longer and longer. So goodnight and grow up. I’m gonna go get some Sabbath rest.